
I was inspired by my friend and fellow HCRW chapter member,
Sonja Foust. She participated in a crazy little challenge called
Project333.
Only 33 items in your wardrobe for 3 months. 33 total. Not me, said I. The thought actually made me shiver when she first blogged about it. I have far too much jewelry to even consider.But, like a bad dream I kept thinking about it. Sonja was a shoe Ho, works in a office for crying out loud… how was she living? Was she hyper ventilating everyday as she faced her closet? She must. I saw her at our RWA chapter meeting. She was smiling, looked her adorable self and didn’t seem emotionally scared at all.
She looked relaxed, confident. I thought back on that very morning. I had tried on three pair of jeans and about 6 different shirts until I was satisfied. She only had 6 shirts to choose from for cripes sake. No pressure. That’s when it hit me! Wham. I got it. Sonja had no turmoil getting dressed because she loves everything in her closet. It’s there because she loves it. OMG!
I have no intention of storing stuff I know I won’t want as the program suggest. I know if I box it up, it will stay that way and clutter another part of my life. I won’t want it later. But, could I do a purge that works on a similar principle?
So I made my own goal on the spot and announced it to Sonja and all within hearing range in the coffee shop. 100…I could get it all down to 100. Right?
Well. Sunday I did it. I opened that closet door and threatened every fabric of my being and all the fabric hanging there mocking me. Fit me today… bloated, 10 pounds overweight and all, or you’re out of here.
And I went at it. Closet, drawers, big storage bags under the bed, they all bled. My exemptions were a little different than the website as well. Hey… My purge. My rules!
Bras, jewelry, costumes, sports jerseys were all safe in my world. And I added boots to this list as I got to them. I purged a bunch of my old riding boots when I left the farm. But the hot ones… they’re mine)
I have to admit it was tough at times. I made several revelations in the process of touching and evaluating my entire wardrobe.
1. I have a very sentimental attachment to some of these things. The leather jacket Allen bought me on vacation, the dress I was wearing at Big Girl’s 10th birthday party, the dress I wore when HB and I went to a formal wedding. They all mean something to me, like wearable photographs. I’m still not ready to get rid of the Montana wedding cloths. Probably never will be. So be it.
2. This is a very frustrating exercise … grrrrr. Not for the weak. Maybe I’ll wear this black and white leopard suit-jacket again. Maybe? Not! It goes.
3. Ten pounds make a huge difference on me. Much of my clothing did not fit and it mocked me each and every day. Strong is the new Skinny for me. I can do 100 push-ups, 100 pull-ups and 100 sit-ups in 30 minutes. I am healthy, sexy and strong. Skinny is not coming back. Dump the size 3 jeans. Love the new curvy Levi’s. Move on.
4. and because of that, I now have only one pair of dressy pants. One. Tan. Not good. May have to add one thing to the closet. A black pair of slacks I love.
So here’s what happened. In 4 hours I dumped:
Belts: 14
Purses: 6
Jeans: 9
Workout clothes: 13
Misc long sleeve shirts: 37
Dresses: 15
Shorts: 7
Short sleeve shirts: 28
Bikinis: 6
Dress pants: 10
Business suits: 7
Sport jackets: 9
Shoes: 4 – recently purged
Bonus items:
Grocery bag of undergarments
Grocery bag of pantyhose (who wears these things anymore?)
2 straw hats
2 cowhide pillows
6 sun visors
1 iron
3 under-bed storage bags are empty
My total purged items came to 171. That included 14 things with the tags still on them.
I was left with clothing and shoes totaling 149 items. Total!
I am stoked. Now… this is ALL seasons. So if you divide 149 by 4… that’s 37ish. I almost made the 33 per season. (If you don’t include the 8 belts and purses and the 9 pair of boots. It’s my math… I can do how I like.) I did way better than I ever imagined.
All in all I found this to a very cathartic experience. Tomorrow, whatever I grab to put on will make me happy. I may not be in the mood for something hanging in that closet, but it will not look bad on me nor will it make me wish for 5 less pounds.
Another bonus. I also decided I do not need the 10x magnification makeup mirror I just had HB install in my bathroom this spring. Who needs to see all those tiny flaws? No one else sees my face the blown up to the size of basketball. Why should I?
This is an amazing thing for those who tackle it. Thanks Sonja. My morning routine will love you for a long, long time to come.
Additional bonus: Big Girl came home and whirled through her closet too… 79 items she added to the pile.
So you add that up and 228 things went to either goodwill or the consignment shop. Whoot!
Win. Win. Win.Considering doing this with every room and closet int he house. clothes, crafts, toys, everything!
You should really try this. Or something like it. What can you do to unclutter your life?
~Mari